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Nov 26, 2018 by Shehera Vega Sánchez

Desperate Mom Pays Actor To Play The Role Of 'Dad' For Her Daughter

After her husband disappeared from her life, a Japanese mom couldn't face the fact her daughter would grow up without a dad. So, to spare her daughter the pain, she came up with a plan. The desperate mom hired an actor to play the role of 'father' in her family, according to the BBC.

Single Parent
In Japan children with a single parent often get bullied and are perceived as inferior. When her Asako's daughter, Megumi, reached the age of ten she couldn't take it anymore. She got scared and refused to go to school. "Ever since she was little she'd ask me where he was," Asako said. "All she knew was that he had gone soon after she was born, so she blamed herself."

'what if I found a man who was nice and kind, someone who would make her feel better?'

It was in that moment; the mother decided to hire an actor named Takashi to stop the bullying. Asako: "All I could think about was, what if I found a man who was nice and kind, an ideal father, someone who would make her feel better?"

Confidence
After her 'dad' came back into her life, the situation got better for the daughter. "Gradually she became happier and more confident," Takashi explained. "I used to meet her with Asako, the three of us together, but one day she said, 'I want to go out with my father, just the two of us,' so I took her out and she held my hand for the first time."

'I really, really wanted to save my daughter'

The girl turned into a confident teenager. After a while, she even started going back to school again. Her 'father' visits her twice a month. The Japanese mom is happy with the choice she made. She pays Takashi about $90 a month.

"Megumi became much happier and more outgoing," she says. "She loved to talk, she was lively - she even wanted to go back to school, and that's when I thought, 'This has all been worth it!'"

Unethical
Some people might not agree with Asako's decision, which doesn't come as a surprise for her. "I know what I'm doing is drastic," she said. "But I really, really wanted to save my daughter."

'When the three of us are together, I feel at peace'

"I know some people think it's foolish to pay money to lie to my own daughter and to have a pretend father, but I was desperate," she continues. "Anyone can understand that horrible feeling of desperation, to see your child so hurt."

"When the three of us are together, I feel at peace. We talk, we laugh, and we are very kind to each other."



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