The fact is our members obey their leaders so long as they agree with them. But let the leader ask of them something they don’t want to do, and they bail out.
Six. Pastors will give account to the Lord for their members.
That’s Hebrews 13:17 also. If pastors genuinely believed they would have be called to account for every member, they would do a lot of things differently. They would work at knowing each person, would be monitoring the spiritual development of each member, and planning ways to grow disciples and put them to work. They would develop accountability methodologies, mentoring programs, and such. And I guarantee you, most would be hoping for smaller congregations.
Seven. Whoever would be great, let him be the servant.
Jesus said a ton of things about service, including “I am among you as One who serves.” He said the path to greatness is through service. And He said it’s the way of the unsaved world to want to dominate people and lord it over them. And yet, only a tiny fraction of His people believe that. We still want to be elected to leadership positions without having to do the hard work of serving. And when we do elect people to serve–we call them deacons–in most cases, they quickly grow bored serving and want to rule and start giving the pastors headaches. (See Luke 22:24ff.)
Eight. Turn the other cheek. Go the second mile. And unrealistic stuff like that.
Jesus didn’t hesitate to lay down rules which (ahem) real-world people scoff at. Such as turning the other cheek when someone hits you, giving them your shirt when they steal your coat, loving your enemies. That’s all found in Luke 6:27ff and several other places.
That’s for the super spiritual, the typical church member insists. And since I could never be super spiritual, I’m going to retaliate when someone does me wrong. In so doing, our role model becomes more Clint Eastwood (“Go ahead; make my day!”) than the Man of Galilee (“Father, forgive them; they know not what they do.”).
Nine. Rather than taking one another to court, God’s people should endure wrong.
It says it right there in I Corinthians 6:7. “But I have my rights,” insists the church member. Clearly, the honor of Christ and the glory of God matter far less than getting even with someone who has done us wrong.
Ten. Worship is about God, about bringing ourselves and our offerings to Him, and not about us.
The deacon prays before the sermon, “Lord, help us get something out of this service today.” After church, people heading to the parking lot remark on whether they “got anything out of that.” One church member was heard to say, “A 20 minute sermon? For that, I got dressed up and drove 15 miles?”
Our people seem not to have a clue that worship is about the Lord and not them. They actually do believe that it’s to meet their needs, to give them warm feelings inside, and to prepare them for the week ahead. Yet, there is not a single word in Scripture to indicate this.
Want a text? Try the entire 150 Psalms for starters. But start with Psalm 96:8, “Ascribe to the Lord the glory of His name; bring an offering and come into His court.”
The point being….
We have so far to go to become Christlike, spiritual, scriptural, and mature.
The person Christ is making us into is light years beyond the carnal, immature, self-centered persons we are at this moment.
The first step toward becoming what God wants us to be is acknowledging how far short we fall. I fear we are more like the Pharisee of Luke 18:9-14 whose prayer was thanking the Lord for all the achievements he had accomplished, when we should pray like the publican who said, “God, be merciful to me the sinner.”
Start there. Lord, your ways are not mine, and I say that to my shame. As the heavens are higher than the earth, your ways are beyond mine. (Isaiah 55).
And then, “Help me, Lord. Show me. Search me and try me.” (Psalm 139).
This article was written by Joe McKeever and originally appeared at his blog. Find it here.
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